I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and you got all that you wished for!
As for me, I’ve had a very interesting year – so many great experiences, both in and out of the sugar bowl. Obviously the event that had the most impact on my life was my relationship with Heckler. We’re looking towards the future together, and as my time as a sugarbaby has ended, I also feel that now is the time to close the doors for good on Mutually Beneficial.
Fear not though, dear readers – I’m not leaving you forever – my story will continue at Sugar Free. I really hope you’ll join me over there.
In the meantime, thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading, following and commenting. It has been wonderful to have you join me in my tiny portion of cyberspace to follow my adventures – it has been an absolute blast!
Stay safe, have a great 2015, and I hope to see you very soon! xxxxxxxxxx
…to wish all my readers and followers a very happy festive season! Stay safe, and I’ll see you on the other side! xxxxxx
I was anticipating a long Saturday snuggled up in bed, trying to shake off the last remnants of the cold I’ve had for the last couple of weeks.
Then I got a call from Heckler. He’d had enough of the North Pole – like atmosphere at his house and was making a bid for a quick escape for the afternoon.
Would I like to join him?
Of course I would!
So, I was soon showered, dressed and ready to meet him, and we trotted off to the local IKEA.
(IKEA, in case you weren’t aware, is a furniture and homeware store, where the furniture is sold flat – packed and the customer assembles it at home. It’s not somewhere where you can nip in for a quick 10 minutes – no, you need to have hours spare for a trip to IKEA – not to mention nerves of steel!)
Heckler is on the lookout for a new flat – which I’ll be moving into at some stage – and he wanted us to just walk round and get an idea of what furniture and homely type things we would need. So, we got to the mattresses and began trying a few out. He lay next to me, holding my right hand – in the right way, of course!
“Have you noticed?”, Heckler asked.
Heckler nodded toward our clasped hands.
The white gold and diamond ring that Heckler had worn on the fourth finger of his left hand every time we’d met over the past seven months was now on his left thumb.
To quote from his blog:
Yes, I am splitting with the Wife… I can’t continue with the way things are. I’ve tried and it’s not enough. She needs to start realising only she can make herself better. I want to be with Miss B. I can say that I have absolutely fallen head over heels in love with her! ❤ She makes me so happy, I feel so relaxed in her company and we can and do talk about absolutely everything! There are times when we don’t even speak to each other, just look into each other’s eye’s, smile and kiss. It’s magical. It feels so right. I want to be with Miss B! Thankfully she feels the same, so now we are looking at becoming an official relationship and live together. I cannot wait!
Naturally, I am so very happy. Excited, a little nervous, maybe, but very, very happy. I had no idea that when I began this journey, I would end up falling in love!
To me, there is no greater joy in life than to sit on a bus, train or plane with my favourite music in my ears and to shut the rest of the world out for a while. I know that sounds very antisocial, but hey – this is me! If I leave my phone at home, that’s fine, but if I leave my iPod, I’m automatically in a bad mood!
I decided to grab my iPod, set it to shuffle, and post links to the first 10 songs that come out. Some of the songs are kind of twisted and random, but I’m sure you’ll forgive me.
So without further ado, here is my random 10:
…is now a lovely, red headed Miss B!
Yes, my leading man may have left the cast (I’ve not killed him off though!), but the curtain cannot go down on my stable just yet!
I only went and texted him – for all I know he could have removed the email that he used to keep in touch with me from his phone. But he always has his phone with him, hence this last text. I won’t initiate contact again.
So, I spent the day in bed, eating nothing but chocolate chip brioches, playing mindless games on my Kindle, mooching on Facebook, and trying not to think about things too much. I will admit that yesterday I broke the rules and sent Heckler an email wishing him the best for a traumatic event he’s going through today, but that was it. He never replied, of course. Slap me round the head now.
So, in bed, eating nothing but chocolate chip brioches, playing mindless games on my Kindle, mooching on Facebook, trying not to think about things too much, trying not to check my email and phone constantly, and checking my email and phone constantly. Not cool.
Not cool at all.
But then I’ve never been one to be cool, so why start now?